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28 April 2026

What happens if the other side refuses to mediate?

You cannot force the other party to mediate — but the law shifted significantly in late 2023. An unreasonable refusal, or simply ignoring an offer, can now carry serious costs consequences.

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7 April 2026

When should you consider mediation?

Most people think of mediation as a last resort — something to try when all else has failed. In practice, the earlier you consider it, the better.

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17 March 2026

What to bring to a mediation — a practical checklist

First time at mediation and not sure what to prepare? Here is a practical guide to what to bring on the day — documents, mindset, and everything in between.

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24 February 2026

Mediating boundary disputes: why they're harder than they look

Boundary disputes are among the most common cases referred to mediation — and among the most emotionally charged. Here is what makes them difficult, and why mediation often succeeds where litigation fails.

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3 February 2026

Landlord and tenant disputes: why mediation works better than the tribunal

Tribunal proceedings for landlord and tenant disputes are slow, stressful and often produce outcomes neither party wants. Mediation offers a faster, cheaper and more flexible alternative.

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13 January 2026

What does a mediator actually do all day?

For most people, a mediation day is unlike anything they have experienced before. Here is an honest account of what a mediator is doing — and thinking — throughout the process.

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23 December 2025

Why most mediations settle late in the day

Most mediations settle in the afternoon — sometimes the late afternoon. Here is why, and what that means for how you should approach the day.

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2 December 2025

The without prejudice rule: what it means in mediation

The without prejudice rule is one of the most important and most misunderstood concepts in dispute resolution. Here is what it means, how it applies in mediation, and why it matters.

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11 November 2025

The true cost of going to court — and why the number surprises most people

Most people significantly underestimate the cost of civil litigation. Here is what it actually costs to take a dispute to trial — and why the number is almost always higher than people expect.

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21 October 2025

When mediation isn't suitable

Mediation is not right for every dispute. Here is an honest account of the cases where it is unlikely to help — and what the alternatives might be.

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